Slice the Jalapeños: Cut the jalapeños lengthwise, removing the seeds and membranes for a milder heat.
Cook the Jalapeños: In a skillet over medium heat, cook the jalapeño halves for 2-3 minutes per side until they are slightly charred and softened. Set them aside.
Spread the Cream Cheese: Evenly spread 1 oz of softened cream cheese onto each slice of Italian bread.
Add the Toppings: Layer one slice of cheddar cheese, the cooked jalapeño slices, 2 slices of crispy bacon, and one slice of Monterey Jack cheese on two slices of bread. Top with the remaining bread slices (cream cheese side down).
Butter the Bread: Spread a thin layer of butter on the outside of each sandwich.
Grill to Perfection: Heat a skillet or griddle over medium heat. Place the sandwiches in the skillet and grill for 3-4 minutes on each side, or until the bread is golden brown and the cheese is melted.
Garnish and Slice: If desired, sprinkle the sandwich with chopped cilantro for added freshness. Slice in half and serve immediately.
Enjoy the Flavors: Bite into the gooey, cheesy, spicy deliciousness of your Jalapeño Popper Grilled Cheese!